Tuesday, May 31, 2011

postheadericon Summer Reading Extravaganza!

Everyone knows that summer means summer reading programs at libraries, but there are other reading programs available that your kids may enjoy. Remember that you can double dip and earn prizes for the same books/time spent, creating a lucrative literary summer!

- I know you're not supposed to toot your own horn, but BEEP! Be sure to check out the Mensa Foundation's Excellence in Reading Award Program here.

- Half Price Books' program runs June 1st through July 31. If kids read 15 minutes a day, they can earn a $5 gift card. For more information, check out their website here. You can get the reading log here.

- PBS Kids Summer Reading Challenge: PBS/iVillage has a program that could keep you busy all summer long. There are several aspects to it, and you can find out more here. Each week there will be a special theme, and you can read more about that here.

- Borders has what they call the "Double Dog Dare Challenge." Kids who read 10 books and track them can get a free book. For more info, check out their website here.

- Chuck E. Cheese has a number of awards that they will grant 10 free tokens for, including reading (and no nose picking!). You can find them at the Chuck E. Cheese Web site here.

- Barnes & Noble will give kids a free book for every 8 books they read. They also have some parent information. Find out more here.

- Scholastic Book also has a summer program in which kids read and log in to win prizes. Details are available here.

- Book It! will give your child a "prize package" for reading. There are some fun things in it - check out their Web site for more info here. Be sure to check out the Pizza Hut school year Book It! program as well here.

- If you are on the east coast, TD Bank has a summer reading program. Read more here. Commerce Bank will deposit $10 in young savers' accounts when they read ten books.

- If you are in an area with H-E-B Grocery Store, they have a program as well. The instructions can be found here.

- It may sound crazy, but Pottery Barn has a summer reading program, along with other kids' events. Check it out here.

- Old Spaghetti Factory offers a free kids meal to every child who reads five books. Information is available here.

- Sylvan Learning Centers has a free reading incentive program for kids through grade 8 that runs all the time. You can register and find more information here.

- Kids 8 & up can be "reading warriors" with this special program built around Erin Hunter's Warrior series of books. Find more info here.

If you're feeling a little less cerebral or need some air conditioning, this Web site lists places with free summer movies: MOVIES.

In keeping with my last post on helping kids learn to serve, here is a video introduction to First Book, a literacy program that tries to get books into the hands of children in the United States who don't have books. Did you know that in low-income families, most homes don't have a single book? Watch!
Monday, May 30, 2011

postheadericon Giving and the Gifted

One of the hallmarks of gifted children is an early, intense social conscience that is often neglected and allowed to atrophy until it becomes the victim of societal pressures toward avarice and self-centeredness.

Parents and teachers of the gifted should invest time into guiding children and teens on how best to find charities to which to donate time and money. Finding reputable charities that match the child (or group of children's) interests is easy with the Web site www.charitynavigator.org. Charity Navigator rates charities (stick with those earning four stars) based on a number of criteria and lets you search based on interest.

Some charities make better avenues of giving than others for kids. Kids want to make a connection with their giving and the amounts they are donating are typically small, so stick with charities that can put a "face" on the giving and where small donations can make a noticeable difference.

One I recommend is Kiva, a microlending charity in which you can donate the same $25 over and over as it is repaid. You can choose the person the loan goes to by a variety of criteria. If a class can bring (or raise) $1 each, you are off! Other good choices for kids are the African Wildlife Foundation Water.org and Heifer International.

You can often get gift cards to charities, so consider requesting one as a gift from grandparents or friends for birthdays or Christmas. The selection of the loan through Kiva or the choosing of an animal to adopt through AWF can be a centerpiece of a birthday party.

If you don't want to deal with money, a terrific option is Soles4Souls, a charity that collects new and gently used shoes for the 300 million children in the world with no shoes. You can collect the shoes and then drop them off at one of a multitude of drop sites - no money needed.

Another possibility is to have kids help make things. When I taught third grade, I had a small quilting frame set up in the class, and kids loved tying small quilts. These can be made very simply out of two pieces of fabric with batting between them, then bound with bias tape when they are tied. They can be donated to hospitals or shelters.

The method of giving isn't the important thing - even the charity itself isn't the important thing. The key idea is that gifted kids feel deeply and profoundly about the world around them and the adults in their lives need to facilitate the translation of that feeling into action. We know they can change the world with their minds; let's be mindful of their need to change the world with their hearts as well.

Watch this segment of Frontline about Kiva:
Thursday, May 12, 2011

postheadericon Emotional Intelligence - Hype or Help?

I've been working on a six-hour training for teachers of the gifted on emotional intelligence in gifted kids. If you've read my previous posts, you know that I am not a believer in "learning styles." I believe people learn different things different ways. For example, I learned to quilt by doing it, but I also read through magazines and books, and I listened to the advice of other quilters. Knowing that, you may believe that I would feel that Emotional Intelligence is quackery, but I don't. We consistently see that one of the things that keeps gifted individuals from achieving what they otherwise could (professionally, academically, and socially) is not a lack of IQ, but rather less-than-stellar EQ.

One of the things that strikes me as a problem is the difficulty people have is being truly open to their strengths and weaknesses. Our society frowns on people saying "I have a strength in this area." It's seen as arrogant. We privilege self-deprecation. This isn't healthy. If we want people to recognize their challenges, we have to make it okay to recognize and name their strengths. As we do this, we often find that our strengths and weaknesses are the same.

If you haven't seen this short clip, watch Marcel the Shell recognize his strengths and weaknesses in a small but healthy way.